Let it rain
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Deep breath. I’m writing this, not at home at my desk, but from New Hampshire, early in the morning, a few hours before my sister and I return to the hospital where my remaining brother remains in the ICU. Until he collapsed, he was caring for our elderly parents. So. It is one of those periods that tests my capacity for embracing life in all its glorious but also shitty, shitty parts.
Outside my window, rain is drenching the grass. I see robins and a few blackbirds with white spots on their wings pecking in the yard, getting on with what they must do, weather be damned. Snow lingers around the roots of the bare trees. Every living being here knows that the rain could turn to ice, another layer of snow could come. Or, there may be more buds popping on the pussy willow bush I can see when I look up.
This is a part of the world where the weather never lets me forget how little I control.
The story with my brother and my parents and my family is still unfolding. I am resolved to write something even if it is a word or two here and there. I brought my novel with me. I am writing to you right now. I am working on a piece I will tell you more about in a minute.
I peck out words like the robins peck the grass for food. The rain is inevitable. Sometimes it comes down harder than others. It is cold but not unforgiving. It softens the earth, opens up new possibilities for food or materials they need for their nests. They keep going.
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On April 18, I will be joining 10 talented storytellers for WHAM! BAM! THANK YOU! SLAM! a live story-telling event hosted by Nan Tepper. I’ve attended two shows and was so inspired that I had to put myself out there. Then, of course, life happened and in the most ironic of ways: the April theme is Death & Taxes.
I resolve to be there. I am not going to tell the story I had started. Recent events shoved that one right out of the picture. The new one is still taking shape. We’ll all find out together how it comes out.
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Gratefully yours,
Betsy
P.S. And now, your moment of Zen…let it rain
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Calling for Your Contribution to “Moment of Zen”:
What is YOUR moment of Zen? Send me your photos, a video, a drawing, a song, a poem, or anything with a visual that moved you, thrilled you, calmed you. Or just cracked you up. This feature is wide open for your own personal interpretation.
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Betsy,
There are moments in life that arrive all at once, and this sounds like one of them.
I’m so sorry you’re walking through this with your brother and your parents.
Your image of the birds in the rain stayed with me… just continuing on, doing what needs to be done.
There’s something honest and grounding in that, and in the way you’re still writing through it.
I’m thinking of you this morning.
Oh, Betsy! My heart aches for you. Sending love and hoping that you continue to find glimmers of spring in this dark time. XOX